Wed, May 14, 2025 11:30 AM

When it comes to securing a spot at your child’s dream college, every piece of the application matters. From GPA and test scores to extracurricular involvement, each component contributes to the bigger picture. But one piece that often gets overlooked—and can make a significant difference—is the letter of recommendation.

These letters give admissions committees a deeper look into who your child is beyond their grades and accomplishments. They offer a personal perspective, highlighting character, work ethic, leadership, and resilience. But here’s where things get tricky: choosing the right person to write these letters can be more challenging than expected.

The ideal letter writer should know your student well, both academically and personally. That could be a teacher who has seen them grow and thrive in the classroom, a coach who’s watched them lead a team, or a mentor who has helped them navigate personal or academic challenges. It’s also important to consider the credibility of the writer. A recommendation from someone in a respected role within the school or community can carry extra weight with admissions officers.

Once your student has identified the right people to ask, it’s essential they approach them with thoughtfulness and professionalism. Communicating early—and clearly—about deadlines helps ensure the writer has enough time to craft a strong, personalized letter. Your student should politely explain why they’re seeking the recommendation, what they hope it will emphasize, and always follow up with a sincere thank you. At College and Beyond LLC, we help our students put together high school resumes or brag sheets to give their recommenders a fuller understanding of their strengths and experiences inside and outside the classroom.

Timing is critical. Whether your child is applying early decision or regular decision, giving recommenders enough lead time is key to getting the most thoughtful letters possible. College and Beyond LLC works one-on-one with families to build personalized timelines and strategies that put students in the best possible position for success.

Choosing the right person to write a letter of recommendation can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. Let College and Beyond LLC guide your family through this important step in the college admissions process. With our expertise, your student’s application will stand out for all the right reasons. Reach out today and let’s take the next step together.

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